WHAT TO DO WHEN DISAPPOINTED
Many times, many of us get disappointed💔. It is in nature that we meet disappointments and set backs. 💔Someone will not act as per your expectations. Something will not go as per planned. 💔Your businesses will slip at an unexpected time. Some people will tell you or behave not like you expect.💔
It is not the things that you see that are disappointments, it is the things that you hold in mind that make you see disappointments💔. The disappointments are so because we expect. We expect alot from the environment and it turns out that the environment gives us little.💔 It is the standard of mind set that brings about that. But however much we may trigger the mind, still we will not Dodge disappointments for good. 💔There will still be a time that we become disappointed. If the scripture says that in this world we will face many trials, it means as challenges are part of life so are the disappointments.💔
💔But how do we deal with them.💔💔💔💔💔
Disappointment is always between your mind and your heart💔. It is not between you and the people. 💔Though it is obvious that they cause it💔. But if they did that to an animal with less brain, the animal will not say I was disappointed💔. For example if your person abused you stupid and it is something that you never expected, and that same abuse is thrown to an animal, you will see that the animal is not moved at all compared to you.💔 The animal's mind doesn't habor such content as ill but your mind has been set to take that as ill.💔
💔It therefore means that dealing with disappointments is dealing with your mind first and your heart.💔 Now... people are all different. The way someone else behaves may not mean ill to them as it does to you.💔 Someone will say a word that hurts you but to them that is the way of life ..that is how they have been brought up.💔 Someone will behave in someway against you not knowing that it hurts.💔 So the problem is not them, it's your heart.💔
You have to deal with the way your mind processes information other than the way people behave💔. You may not say enough words to change someone's "bad manners" .💔 You may not change the way someone is right away, but you can change how you react and take in the information. 💔
Tell yourself that what they did cannot be changed but your mind should change about that💔. Disappointments come and make us inferior and that is why the heart reacts to that brutally. 💔But tell yourself that what they do doesn't change the good that is you or what you have achieved💔. It doesn't change the future that awaits you. 💔It doesn't change who you are. It doesn't make you inferior before God💔. It doesn't bring low your abilities. 💔Tell yourself that you are still whole no matter what they have done. When we incline to expect from others, we do so because of the natural feeling of not being complete and not being worthy enough.💔 But telling yourself you are still whole and good makes the heart convinced.💔 Telling yourself that even them they have weaknesses and are not complete makes you feel courage.💔 It makes your heart feel safer. The heart does all to protect you. So convincing it with such better words and building courage makes you feel better. 💔
The people who normally deliberately disappoint others are usually young in heart and reasoning.💔 Someone speaks whatever is on their mind without caring if it hurts you or not...such is a young soul💔. A mature soul would obviously sieve words before speaking.💔 Telling yourself that you are mature than they are makes you feel whole.
It is you that you need most and not them.💔 Therefore don't drive more feelings to others than you do to yourself. It is unnatural to do so.💔 You are made to be a governor of your own life and your heart.💔 Tame your mind and convince your heart that you are just who you are....no one is better. You were made to be like Christ .💔 You were made complete with all that God desires of you though not made perfect. People's words shouldn't Dictate your mood💔. Don't struggle to fight their disappointments for they are different and your are different💔. Let your own peace prevail. Let your own word to your heart be stronger and better than they say. Run your life as God made you to.💔
_GOD BLESS YOU._
#Simon kutosi. _172th msg_
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